flirting and self-confidence;
striking looks and an unconventional style;
attention and admiration;
bold humor and edgy banter;
romantic tension;
charismaticuninhibited characters;
a sense of freedom and spontaneity.
Turns Off
rudeness and a lack of respect for boundaries;
being intrusive;
boredom and a lack of a sense of humor;
lying and manipulation;
excessive jealousy;
sloppiness;
narcissism;
inability to communicate properly;
pressure instead of mutual desire.