It turns me on to feel in controlto know that my presence commands respect and that my words carry weight. I enjoy it when someone looks to me for instructionswhen they obey without question and surrender to my rhythm.
Turns Off
I get discouraged when I lose control or feel like Iโm not being taken seriously. Iโm not attracted to someone whoโs indecisivedoesnโt follow instructionsor disrupts the flow by questioning everything.